Four Years

Mark and I have been married four years. We celebrated our anniversary on St. Patrick's Day. Before we got married, so many people asked me if I was Irish...was that the reason we had chosen St. Patrick's Day? No, I was teaching and it was Spring Break. And that was that! No honeymoons or get-aways this year. But we did get to go out to eat! Mark sister Jody came to town just so we could go to dinner. What a blessing! So nice to eat a meal and actually chew our food....and talk to each other. Four years doesn't sound very long...but both Mark and I agree that, in a good way, it seems like we've been together much longer. I just can't imagine not being married to him!

And now updates on the kids. James is two and a half. Some days we think he is getting to be such a big boy. But other days I'm reminded that he's still so little. I'm thankful for those days because it's almost heart-breaking to realize how fast it's going! We love this phase of him talking more and more all the time. He really says the funniest things....at least we think so. Along with the age comes a good dose of independence and tantrums, too. So hard to know how to deal with irrational toddler behavior sometimes!

James loves the new (used) van we got last weekend. Every time we go somewhere he shouts, 'oh YEAH! Let's go on AVENTURE!' (aventure = an adventure) After we took these pictures, we decided to put an end to him sitting in the front seats. Too many buttons for a little boy to push!
Mark was 'stowing' one of the seats into the floor of the car and James exclaimed, 'Oh, FANCY!' What a hoot!!

Miss Clara Marie is turning into the sweetest little girl. Ever. She smiles at everybody and everything. She's not very interested in rolling over (yikes) and is really content being held. James was always a little more squirmy, wanted to be down on the ground movin' around. Clara is a cuddler...so far, anyway. I know, those could be 'famous last words' and next thing you know she's as active as her brother....but for the time being, we're enjoying her relaxed personality.

I took these on her 5 month 'birthday'. Little peanut.
(Thanks to Andrea and Lauren for loaning us clothes! Clara is wearing 6 month clothes now)

Clara has been chewing and drooling quite a bit. She prefers a finger....or two...or her whole fist...or teething rings. But she's not as wild about the pacifier as James was (and is still, sadly).

I'll never get over pictures of tiny toes. Too sweet for words.

29 and 4

Just checking in for my monthly update....James is 29 months (he'll be two and a HALF on the 19th) and Clara is 4 months. Before I get started, I wanted to share a link to the pictures our photographer friend Sarah Sorell took of Clara at three months. I've had the link a while, just hadn't gotten around to sharing! I love them ALL and will never be able to pick some to have prints of. Can't believe how much she's already changed since then! Click on the following link to enjoy: http://www.sorellimages.com/clara3months/

I'm kicking off this set of pictures with a few of just James. I realize it appears that I only spend time taking pictures of Clara. Well, she doesn't move yet. And that's really what it comes down to. And she's fun to dress and accessorize. :) These are the type of pictures I take of James these days. Pictures of cool towers we've built together (note: ambulance balancing and teetering on top of tower). Above is James' 'holding still' face. Below is his 'crashing the tower' excited face. Boys ARE fun!

I took these of Clara on her 4-month birthday. I've been obsessing over this idea of her inside of this bucket I found in the garage last summer. So the following is what resulted.

I am a little sad to note that her signature 'bouffant' hair-do has tamed a good deal in the past week. I think her hair is finally long enough that it is laying down. I kinda miss it sticking up!

Clara has a few new tricks. When she's sitting in her bouncy seat she arches her back to stick her tummy out (like above) when we look at her because she's dying to be picked up!

And she's sitting in the Bumbo chair, too! She doesn't last too long and it nearly always makes her spit up but she's lookin' pretty big there!

We were having a really tough day yesterday (cranky toddler, cloudy rainy day). Thank goodness for homemade playdough. We have plenty of the store-bought stuff, but the homemade kind took a little extra time...so I was all about that! James played with it for an hour!! He still loves the 'hammer' (meat mallet) and mini cookie cutters.

Now this may not look like much, but Clara on her tummy NOT crying about it is a big deal around here. Her little octopus toy is Chiming Charlie and she's always loved him! Look at her grinning at him! Very sweet.

In other news, Clara is also tolerating her car seat a little better. For about two months she had a crying fit every time we drove anywhere! It's so nice to be beyond that stage!
James is still showing little interest in potty training, although I think he's fully capable. He's loving songs, especially ones with actions. There are some GREAT You*Tube resources out there for that, too, but that's an entirely separate post.
I'm ready for spring and warmer weather, but who isn't? Can't wait to go one week without somebody being sick and to get out of the house a little more!!

February Update

I'm starting to think a monthly blogging goal is more reasonable than the near-weekly posting I was capable of a few months ago. Anything more will be a bonus! Not that I've ever had anything too inspiring to share...just the goings-on of our family! But I do want to continue updating for family and friends that don't leave near us! So here we are....mid-February. How did THAT happen? The past few weeks have been a blur for several reasons.

1. I've been sick. Again. But who hasn't? Seems like we've all been sick multiple times this winter! It sure always makes me thankful for my normally healthy state.
2. My niece Annie turned one and I was lucky enough to contribute to the buffet of sweets....very fun...but a little time consuming. :)
3. My mom had a birthday and we had her over for a special birthday lunch. A 30-minute Rachael Ray recipe took two hours with two kids to take care of simultaneously! It was delicious, though, and worth it for Mom!
4. James is 'dabbling' in potty training. Yay! He's a loooong way off from being totally trained, but at least he's willing to try now!

And now a few pictures....(don't worry, none of the potty training efforts :)

Our little heart-breaker James....all spiffed up for some Valentine pictures I took....Mark thought this pose was really strange and too senior-picture-esque. I thought it was cute. Thoughts?

Clara with my mom at Annie's birthday party. Clara is 16 weeks today. Notice Clara's wrist rolls....yep, she's 'filling out' nicely. Sidenote: my mom's grandma's name was Clara!

Love the cousin-love! We'll have years of goofy pictures, I'm sure. None of them are ever looking at the camera, it seems.

Everything we know about royal icing I learned here. It's ultra-time consuming but has a really snazzy result. Mom and I had fun working on these last week for Annie's party...can you tell it was 'cupcake' themed?

And cupcake bites, of course! These were the extras, leftover from the party 'favors'. Of course, everybody was sent home with plates of leftover cupcakes, too, because...............

there were FOUR types of GOURMET home-made cupcakes, made by Mimi, my brother's mother-in-law. See how they shimmer? Gorgeous. The chocolate one on the right has purple fairy dust on it and was to. die. for.

the birthday girl, Annie, enjoying her pink lemonade cupcake

I love this family. This is Joel, Elizabeth, and Annie. Notice the cupcake dress and the fact that she can show you how old she is...she's SO smart!

These are incredibly life-like, aren't they? Hand-made (not kidding) by a friend of ours, Sally. They are literally chicken ottomans. They're so fun! If you're interested, here's her site!

Mark took James on an outing yesterday. A reward-for-going-on-the-potty-chair outing to get ice cream. They came home with this Valentine balloon, from James to Mommy. I love it.

And this morning I insisted on doing something little for V-day. So I whipped up a paper-heart 'garland' of sorts to hang from the light fixture (hole-punched and strung with curling ribbon) and threw on a pink table cloth. Here's James opening a card from his grandparents (Mark's parents). He took the entire process very seriously. There was some cash inside and he excitedly shouted, "I have MONEY!" He spent five minutes 'reading' his card and his money. (note: gorgeous roses from Mark!)

Although it appears that I fed James sugar cookies for breakfast, these are actually pancakes, stamped out with a cookie cutter and garnished with whipped cream and sprinkles, of course. SO much healthier than sugar cookies for breakfast. :) I really think that sprinkles are a great investment for the toddler years.

And that's all for now. It's a modern-day miracle that I've been able to blog this long today, so I'll post again another time...maybe in a month?

13 Weeks with Clara

Sorry! Can't make this slide show go in the right order...so it looks like she's shrinking rather than growing!! :)

Our little Clara Marie is 3 months old this week! She is becoming more fun by the minute, too. James is just loving her and calls her 'precious'...which usually sounds like 'pweshus'...."Hi, pweshus...calm down, pweshus". I just know she'll always adore him. She's blowing bubbles and 'raspberries' with her cute little lips, too. Clara LOVES any face to face interaction she can get and smiles SO big when we get her first thing in the morning (as well as the middle of the night, when I go to feed her). We're so thankful for Clara!

Cheers, Buddy!

Mark took James outside Saturday afternoon to build a snowman. James was most excited about the carrot nose. My favorite part was that he was wearing trash bags on his feet. So cute! Needless to say, he doesn't have any snow boots.

Our snowman is a "Cowboy" Snowman.

Whenever Mark and James come in from playing in the snow (twice now) Mark makes them hot chocolate, or in James' case "lukewarm" chocolate. This time James lifted his glass and initiated a 'cheers' by saying, "Cheers, Buddy!" It was pretty sweet.

And just because she's 13 weeks today, I'll throw in a picture of Clara! Sometimes James calls her 'precious', which is also pretty sweet. Can't believe how quickly she's growing! Look at those little rolls! :)

Indoor Snow Play

I can't take credit for this activity...but just had to share it because we had so much fun! I was blog-surfing during naptime trying to come up with a fun 'project' when I came across this idea; bring the snow inside! Because I have an infant, I haven't been willing to bundle all three of us up to head outdoors but had been sad that James couldn't play in the snow. So I got out a thick beach towel, a few bowls, some of his toys, and went outside to scoop snow.

first thing, James began dumping every single toy into the snow pile

I made a snowman which he immediately claimed...and attempted to eat

his little fingers were absolutely freezing but he never complained once!

I used a small tupperware to make snow 'bricks' we could stack

James thought they were the perfect pedestals for his cars...of course!
I also packed a few of his figurines in the middle of his snow bricks to dig out and then got out the hair dryer to watch snow melt.

I saved the snow ice cream for last. (don't worry, I used 'clean' snow :) I used a bowl of un-played-with snow and added milk, sugar, and vanilla. James was in love! I thought it tasted pretty good, too, until he began to add chunks of played-with snow. I stopped eating it after that...but James slurped it all down! At one point he exclaimed, "Jackson, Sarah, Levi, Jason like this special!" He was wishing he could share this "special" activity with some of his cousins! If the snow lingers a few more days, we might have to do this again. We spent ONE HOUR playing with snow and it was FREE and clean up consisted of picking up a saturated beach towel. Can't beat that! I'd recommend this one for anybody with a toddler! :)
P.S. I have no idea what happened to his pants in that last picture...seriously!

December to January

Somebody asked me the other day what I've been up to the past few weeks....what on Earth is keeping me so busy? These two kiddos have literally kept my hands full. In the past month we had five Christmas celebrations, James had his first stomach flu experience, I had a 24-hour bug, James fractured his foot, and we've all been battling a yucky cold bug for weeks! In addition to that, Clara is more and more alert every week. This is a LOT of fun for us but also makes it more difficult as I'm learning how to delegate my time between two children!

Here are several pictures from the past month....

James is obsessed with 'helping' in the kitchen. I'm learning to be more flexible and he's learning a lot about cooking! He loves to say " raw chicken! need salt! very hot! be careful!" Here he was helping my mom and me make ham sandwiches for my grandmother's birthday party. His job was to peel off the wax paper between the swiss slices and throw it away. He was listening to silly songs while he worked. :)

James has painted a few times. He likes to use the brush but refuses to finger paint. It sort of surprised me! He did, however, desperately want squeeze the paint out of the bottle by himself...am I a bad mother for not letting him?

We celebrated Christmas with Mark's family first. Here is my dear mother-in-law. We have been following her through quite the journey lately! Less than a week ago, Lois had major surgery to remove cancer from her right lung. She has been so brave and strong. The surgery was successful but there is still quite a bit of recovery to deal with. Please pray for her as she is recovering and still in the hospital.

Our annual hand bell and caroling at the nursing home

After getting his cool blue cast on, we had to keep James off his feet for a few days. Here he had fun making gingerbread cookies with my parents a few days before Christmas.

My grandmother turned 80 on Christmas Day. We had quite the party to celebrate the day after!

James and Clara with their cousin Annie, my brother's daughter. James had fun playing with Annie!...perhaps too much fun? He passed his cold on to her. :(

This was the best we could do for a Christmas picture of our family. Kind of pitiful, huh? It is very typical, though. James is nearly always checking on Clara, touching Clara, hugging Clara, poking Clara....and she just tries to take it all in.

My extended family...grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins...the works!

The week following Christmas my girlfriend Amy was available one afternoon before heading home so a few of us got together. As you can see from the picture, we all have kids and are all busy mamas now! It was great to catch up a little!

10 weeks old

11 weeks